Part of having a good love life is having fun in the bedroom. However, it can be easy to run out of bedroom ideas after being with a partner for a while. 

To keep things spicy with your partner, we’ve put together a couple of ideas that you can try in the bedroom. So, if you’re looking for some new bedroom activities, keep reading.

1. Play Some Games

If you and your partner are having some trouble getting creative when it comes to bedroom ideas, you can try playing some games between the sheets. Yes, we mean literally!

There are tons of sexy games out there for couples. Some of them can be purchased online while others can be played with a simple deck of cards.

A few games you can try out with your partner include: 

  • Deck of Desire
  • Sexy Jenga
  • Strip Poker
  • Sex dice

These are just a few of the many games out there that you and your partner can enjoy playing to help get into your kinky side. 

2. Try Some New Toys

If you’ve never experimented with toys, it’s high time that you did. There is no end to the list of fun toys that you and your partner can experiment with. 

Better yet, finding the right sex toys can take some trial and error. You’ll have fun not only using your toys but checking out which ones you and your partner like best!

A few sex toys you can try out include: 

  • Anal beads
  • Couples vibrators
  • Dildos
  • Cock rings
  • Anal plugs

There are so many more sex toys out there that you and your partner will never have to stop exploring one another if you don’t want to. That makes for a great way to spend the next year together!

3. Try Bondage

After 50 Shades of Grey rose to fame, every couple seemed to be trying out BDSM. However, some bondage can be a great way for you and your partner to spice things up in the bedroom!

If you’re going to try bondage with your partner, make sure that the two of you have a safe word. That way you know when you’re having a good time and when you’re going too far. 

Another pro tip for couples wanting to try out bondage is to start small. Try playing around with handcuffs or some other kinky toys before you whip out the bigger guns – no pun intended. 

4. Get Into Some Role Play

Have you always fantasized about being carried to the bedroom by a night in shining armor? Maybe you’d love to be swept off your feet by superman!

No matter what your fantasy is, role play is a great way to make those ideas come to life. You and your partner can take turns dressing up. 

To add to the fun, go shopping for your costumes together. You can help each other pick out items that really get you in the mood and leave you feeling excited for the night to come. 

5. Have Cyber or Phone Sex

Who said all sex had to be in person? With so many mobile gadgets and gizmos out there, it’s easier than ever to have sex with your partner. 

One method of doing so is to get on a phone call. Enjoy talking dirty to each other and getting into some long-distance play. Sometimes just the audios can make for some truly sexy fun. 

Another way to have cyber sex with your partner is through a chat. If you’re great at talking dirty the two of you can get freaky behind a keyboard!

If you want to really turn up the heat, incorporate a remote control vibrator. Let your partner control your vibrator from afar using their mobile phone, and enjoy letting them virtually take the lead. 

6. Try a Risqué Location

Sometimes the best way to spice up your love life with your partner is to take things out of the bedroom. This can add some adrenaline to the mix, making for a truly incredible experience!

You could head down to the beach after sundown and find a remote location to get cozy with your partner. Or, you could enjoy snuggling up in a hot tub for some watery fun. 

If you’re going to enjoy some fun in a new location, just make sure that it’s appropriate and that no one is around. After all, you don’t want to create an awkward situation!

7. Play With Food

Most of us have brought ice cubes into the bedroom before, but how many of us have pulled out the whipped cream or chocolate sauce? 

Food can be a great way to get kinky with your partner and is one of the many bedroom ideas for couples that can really add fuel to your fire. 

A few great foods to bring into the bedroom include: 

  • Champagne
  • Whipped cream
  • Oysters
  • Chocolate
  • Ice cream

If the idea of real food in the bedroom has you worried about making a mess, you can always opt for some flavored lubricant. There are some great dessert flavors that can make you feel as though you’re playing with food without worrying about the cleanup. 

Turn up the Romance With These Couple Ideas

These couple ideas for the bedroom will have you and your partner enjoying a fun time all night long. And, by trying some new bedroom activities together you can build intimacy and foster a deeper connection.

Did you love this article? Be sure to check out some of our other blog posts for more romantic ideas to try with your partner!



Patricia Ann Cole has been writing stories since she was a child. Most of those stories were of a paranormal nature. In her adult life she earned a BA in mathematics and taught elementary math for many years. She loves to read, particularly romance novels. She can talk for hours about a TV series. She adores her cat, Sonic. She loves spending time with family and friends, especially her nieces and nephew. She is an avid traveler and enjoys the more exotic adventures.