The Mother of the Bride plays an important role in the wedding. When your daughter is getting married, you naturally want to support her in any way you can. As a mother, this is an exciting time and a wonderful way to celebrate your child now they are grown up for all their choices and happiness. It is all too easy, however, to succumb to the stress of all the planning. So, here are five tips for a peaceful day for every member of the wedding party including the bride and her mother. 

Get Your Dress Early

What you wear is important to a certain extent. You have to feel comfortable and looking amazing will definitely be a confidence boost that keeps you feeling positive on the big day. There are so many amazing outfit options to pick from including plus size mother of the bride dresses and everything in between. This is a purchase worth splashing out on, after all. 

Be Led by Your Daughter

Never assume that you can make decisions on your own about the wedding. Everything about the day has to go through your daughter (and her partner). So, this is where you can sit back and allow the process to happen around you while being around for the journey. Let your daughter tell you what she needs and let her know how you meet that request in the best way possible. 

Stay Present

Being present will be one of the most amazing gifts you can give, and it doesn’t even cost anything. There is already a good chance that you want to be close by your daughter through this special time anyway, just in case she needs you. So, it won’t be that much of a leap to be around when she asks. She will be carrying a lot of different emotions, after all, and you can be a positive guide to help regulate the big feelings. 

Be Gracious: Don’t Overstep

It is so easy to do as a parent, but weddings are never the time to overstep those important boundaries. If your child ask something, even if you don’t agree, it’s vital to keep those boundaries in place. Healthy relationships are the priority here, and even if you think you know better, a parent’s role is to always guide and never tell their adult children how to make their decisions. 

Include the Other Mother

Don’t forget that the other mother of the couple needs including too. There is every chance that they are as excited about the big day as you are, and therefore this is a great opportunity to get to know one another in a healthy and exciting way. This will be a shared experience and is a wonderful way to bring a family together positively, after all. 

Ultimately, you are a part of a special day and it’s all about the happy couple. Every decision you make should have your daughter at the forefront, and just aim to be as supportive as possible while remembering you deserve to feel comfortable and amazing too. 



Manisha has always been passionate about writing. She has written her poems, short stories, and articles since her school days. In her professional life, she has worked as a journalist since 2011. Her passion for writing led her to write her debut book, Unhappy Marriage, which gained her many accolades. She currently lives in India.