If you have been asked to be the maid of honor by a bride, she is probably someone you are very close to. Whether she’s your beloved sister or a childhood friend, being asked to be such an integral part of a wedding party is quite an honor. However, as one of the most significant people at the wedding, the pressure is on to help the happy couple celebrate their big day without a hitch. Here are a few top tips to help you fulfill your duties as the bride’s right-hand woman.
Be Her ‘Yes’ Girl
Being the maid of honor comes with many responsibilities, and one of them is to always be there for your loved one. Whether she’s the type to take everything in her stride or she fits the stereotypical description of a ‘bridezilla’, you should always support her and simply be present. Weddings take a lot of hard work, and you want your friend to look back at the experience in a positive light. As a significant person in the bride’s life, she will be turning to you at every moment of her journey, which is why you need to be positive whenever she needs to make an important decision. Even if the color theme wouldn’t be your first choice for your own wedding or you don’t love the dress she’s picked out for you, feign enthusiasm and be her ‘yes’ girl.
Give Her Your Honest Opinion
You have been chosen to be the maid of honor for a number of reasons, and some of these reasons should be that your friend trusts you and values your opinion. As the maid of honor, you should be happy and positive when your friend asks you about wedding-related matters, and even if things aren’t to your taste, you should still support your friend’s decisions. However, you should always try to give her your honest opinion in a constructive way. After all, with so many things to think about, it is possible for her to unwittingly make a bad decision. If you truly think your friend will regret making certain decisions, try to give her constructive feedback.
Honor Her With a Fitting Bachelorette Party
A major maid of honor duty is to organize an awesome bachelorette party that’s fitting for your best gal. From choosing the location and activities to creating a guest list and making sure you select a date that suits most people, there are plenty of things to think about. The bachelorette party will be one of the moments your best friend will look back on and reminisce about, so make sure it is a moment to remember for all the right reasons.
Make Your Speech Personal
Not many people enjoy public speaking, but putting together a heartfelt message for your best friend will make getting up and giving a speech worthwhile. Your speech should come from the heart and include genuine good wishes for the bride and groom.