Men and women are so similar to each other, although most people think they are so different. At the same time, they are simultaneously both complicated and simple. We all think that the other party is complex, but it’s easy to understand them if we try to know the basics.
You are bound to meet all kinds of people when you’re in the dating pool. It’s not likely to find a person that is meant to be for the rest of your life immediately. You’ll need to kiss more frogs until you finally turn one into a prince, but you’ll also need to know that they won’t turn into one without your help.
If you know what’s on their mind, how to act, and what you need to do to sweep them off their feet, dating will be easy for you. You’ll quickly forget about stereotypes and focus on what is important.
In this article, we’re sharing a couple of tips on how to date like a pro, and always be on top of the game. We will share some tips to use and always have the advantage when dating men. Follow up and learn more about these tricks.
1. Always look flawless
Men are visual beings, and maybe over 50% of their judgment is in the first two seconds when they look at you approaching them. Looks are everything for men, so you should take this as an advantage. Dress appropriately for the occasion, and be sure they love what they see.
Think about what is your strongest asset and make them see it. If you’re rocking a flawless body, ask for a date at the beach. Pick sexy swimwear and make sure they have the chance to see you in it. This will surely sweep them off their feet.
2. Let them talk and be interested in what they say
Men love dominating. That means it works in your best interest to see them talk and explain how good they are in what they do. Even those men who are not showing signs of domination would take the opportunity when you hand it to them and love the new role.
Encourage them to talk more. Ask questions and stay interested. If you show them how fascinated you are by what they do and what their interests are, it will raise their ego and make them happy spending time with you. Few men are regularly praised for who they are, so once they find a place where they are appreciated, they’ll always come back for more.
3. Don’t judge
Do you like to be judged for what you did in life or what your opinions are? We are all different. Accepting who this person is is essential. Not only shouldn’t you judge them if you want to win them over, but it would also help if you act fascinated about what they’re saying.
Of course, if you are judging them secretly, be sure that that relationship won’t work in the long run. Men rarely change; even if they do, that won’t make them happy. If you’re outraged by something they are saying, but fake it that you’re okay with it, be sure that this may cause serious issues later.
4. Don’t be shy – be talkative and interesting
Aside from men loving to have the spotlight on them, they also love seeing you be fascinating. When they ask a question or wait for your opinion on a subject, the best thing is to provide honest and cheerful answers.
You should avoid politics, serious talks, and arguing if it is your first date. Be joyful, talkative, interesting, throw a joke here and there, and enjoy the time spent with this person. No one wants to spend time with someone who is boring, loves to argue, and can’t take a joke.
5. Flirt occasionally, not constantly
Flirting is crucial, but you need to have the right dosage. Don’t interrupt to tell them what you can do in bed naked. Instead, flirt occasionally and when there’s a chance for it. It may be using the right sentence on their side to add a sexy pun, compliment their looks, subtly point out your strongest assets, etc.
Constant flirting will be misread, and you’ll not get what you want. On the other hand, subtle flirting will hook them just right, after which you may do nearly anything you want, and all they’ll be thinking is your flirting.
These few points are enough for you to learn how to date and seduce like a pro. Your success rate may start slow, but you’ll get traction with more dating. Follow the tips we mentioned above, and you can be sure that no man will ever escape your net.